Soul Mate

Soul Mate. 

My thoughts on attracting the perfect partner are-

Write a list of all the ideal attributes one loves to have in a Life partner. 

Keep the list handy and re-read it frequently. 

Then go out into the community sharing heart and soul, serving others in all that we love to do......

It is always there (within that which we love to do- our Dharma) that our soul mate inhabits space and time because the Law of Attraction ensures that we must attract that which we are and that which we do.  

Patience is power because it is within the waiting of attracting that ideal soul, that we ourselves become the values and qualities that we wished for-   in the unique partner that we need for our growth and completion. 

But having said all this-

The person we attract will always magnify and reflect back to us;  all that we ourselves are. 

Both the good and the bad. Which is perfect because it motivates and stimulates our own growth and personal development. 

I found my own Life Partner and Soul Mate this way as after much trial and error in many previous relationships learning about intimacy, she turned up at the perfect time and place. 

And more recently my very own 'new' Saab Vector Sport, within a week of selling my business and including my Business Jeep 4x4 vehicle in the sale

ie:   By using this visioning dynamic  3 years ago I had previously printed several pictures of a silver Vector Sport 2L Turbo with sunroof and hung them above my desk at home. 

Three years later April 2016 I flew down to Sydney to buy my very own immaculate 1 owner Saab with very low K's for an amazing price. Yay!!!!!

Patience is Power!!

Finding a soul mate is #1 for many people. Personally, I believe you have a lot of chances to do so. 

Your soul mate might not necessarily just be one person. But often people have more than one soul mate.  

(But live with one of them of course) 

There’s a reincarnation based belief that I’ve always been fond of. 

That belief is that when you die, your soul shatters and breaks into pieces. Those pieces are randomly brought together with pieces of many other souls to form new souls and new people. 

So when you meet someone that you so strongly click with or find that person who is so clearly your soul mate, you’re really finding pieces of your own soul in them, and they’re finding pieces of their soul within you

(Oneness Principle. There Is-   One!!

We 'see' many others through the five physical senses but in fact there Is;  but one 

* Omniscience. 

* Omnipotence. 

* Omnipresence.                     

Spirit expressed through countless ideas of 'Being' expressed as multiple people, places and events. 

Neat huh? 

No matter how it happens, these are 20 signs you’ve found your soul mate.

• Your soul mate is endlessly loyal to you.

• Your soul mate is always supportive of you.

 • Your soul mate has a similar guiding compass.

• Your soul mate sparks an intense passion in you.

• You can communicate comfortably with your soul mate.

• Your soul mate makes you feel special.

• Your soulmate transcends spiritual boundaries with you.

• Your soul mate appreciates your affection. 

• Your soul mate thinks you’re just irresistible.

• Your soul mate helps you feel safe.

• You feel like you can completely trust your soul mate.

• You don’t just experience their endless love, you feel it.

• You’re spiritually connected more so to your soul mate than anyone else.

• You can spend time sitting in silence but know what your soul mate is thinking.

• Even in times of tragedy, you find strength in your soul mate.

• Your soul mate turns to you with all their secrets, hopes and dreams.

• Your soul mate has the same ideas about business as you.

• Your soul mate always includes you in major and minor life decisions.

• Your soul mate pushes you to be better and you return that favor.

As people, in terms of being happy and successful, you and your soul mate always thrive together through constant never ending challenging growth and development. 

But!!!  Remember this;  that when You are confronted by your Soul Mate, and You will be, often. 

The first one to 'react' to any / every confrontation, is the person that puts up the FIRST act of war.  (Not the one that is first confronting)

I'm Sorry.....

The 4 statements to transmute disturbing appearances.

When presented with disturbing situations:

e.g. Being abused, criticized  or anything that distresses you, start saying the 4 statements to yourself. 

The other person does not need to know you are doing the four statements in your mind. 

These are the statements and the understanding behind them....

* I'm sorry

* Please forgive me

* Thank you

* I love you.

The process is done from the understanding that we create our experience of the world through what we hold in our consciousness.........

What we think, feel and speak - a lot of it is subconscious or hidden from our conscious awareness.

When we say  'I'M SORRY'  we are taking personal responsibility for the situation that is presenting before us.  We alone create our own world of circumstances. The 'other' person, place or event is merely the decoy to place blame for our own projection. 

We acknowledge that it is impossible for this present situation to be happening without us first having the belief or thought pattern for its very existence. 

We have innate within us the power to mould the Infinite Universal substance (quantum field) into whatever form we hold in thought. Quantum physicists tell us this is a fact that is observable at the atomic level (of Atoms, protons, electrons, quarks and bosons,etc).

So, if we have a disturbing situation presenting, then prior to this moment we have held the thought pattern or belief in this kind of behavior. Somewhere in our consciousness we have believed in the possibility or focused on this kind of situation.

We say  'PLEASE FORGIVE ME'  to affirm silently to the other person that our thought pattern is causing this disturbance between us. 

Our thought pattern is drawing this behavior into form.

We say   'THANK YOU'   for the reminder of what we are still holding in our consciousness. 

This situation could not be happening unless we held the belief in it, or held the consciousness for it. 

We thank this person or situation for the opportunity/ reminder to transmute our consciousness to Love and Peace.

In reality there is only our thoughts and mind constantly creating our every day experience of the world.

Lastly we say  'I LOVE YOU'  because in behind all appearances there is a place of Peace and Love, a presence that connects all in Love. 

We are saying 'I love you' to connect with, focus on, and therefore bring into our experience the Love within this person or situation.   

We are saying 'I love you' to the True essence of the person or situation. 

What we focus on will soon appear in form.   It is so important to use discipline of Mind to focus on the Love that is the Truth within everything - 

to focus on what we really DO want to experience in form.

Remember, what we think about, speak about or keep in our feelings will soon show up in form in our life.

This process helps us to take 100% responsibility for what is showing up in our life, and then transmuting it through focusing on the Truth behind the appearance. 

That Truth is that Love and Peace are ever present within all of Life.

You Are One.

There is not 'many' of us-

There is but ONE Life;  experiencing itself in apparent form or shape which actually is-  the illusion. 

At the sub atomic level there is only energy vibrating giving off the illusion of 'self'.  

Know that whatever the apparently separate 'you' thinks, speaks of and acts out;  will appear-  as you!!!!

Clear thoughts=   Clear Life. 

Dull thoughts=      Dull Life. 

Very simple!!!!!