Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts

Monday, 7 April 2014

Attachment.

How does One love someone else without 'attachment'?
And what's wrong with being 'attached' to your partner, friend or family?

This has been a question rattling around in my head for some time now. I know that I do either have aversion or attachment to people, places or events.
It's got to be black or white......

Guess I have to admit; with me, your either 'in' or your 'out' and there's NO in between. In the past, this behavior has been convenient, but now, intolerable!!

Change is inevitable and this aspect of my 'protected' character has become untenable, there must be a third option to aversion and attachment. 

Guess I have work to be done.....

“A feeling of aversion or attachment toward something is your clue that there's work to be done.”  Ram Dass

Sunday, 5 January 2014

Spiritual Healing.

The a,b,c's of Spiritual Healing:

a.   Give thanks - (Gratitude) 
I give thanks for (state what is truth relevant to the healing you want). 

e.g. If you are treating for ill health, you would give thanks that Divine Perfection exists in all things and all people at all times. This is REALITY!
Sickness is only an 'appearance' with NO form, shape, substance  nor size. 
Only thought that is appearing real. 

If you were treating for relationship problems, you would give thanks that there is only  'ONE' Mind;  therefore, this  'other'  person is merely mirroring back to me my incorrect use of Spiritual Law. 
So be in Gratitude-  'for the wake up call.'

b.  Unify with  'The Field.'  (One Mind) Spiritual Law always works for You and ALL thought becomes form.
Realize that you ARE The Field of all possibilities.  Objectively Speak The Word.... Subjectively 'SEE' the answer.    (Be The Change You Want To See)

Everyone sends either planned or default  'Objective'  messages into The  'Subjective' Field for instant development, that becomes their life.
As we constantly send messages out into The Field,' of All opportunity anyway,  lets really plan the REAL Consciously desired outcomes. 

c.   Command your request......
Conscious (or Subconscious) Objective Thought is creative power sent out into the subjective field of all opportunities for abundant growth.

Affirming the power of your Word. You would state - I know that my Word (thought) becomes form.
Command your Vision, for 'The Field' must obey, subjective must follow Objective reasoning. 

Speak your command.   e.g. Treating ill health,  you would state MY body is in complete Divine Perfection at all times. 
Only Perfect health, harmony, love and peace exist within me.

Treating for relationship problems - "person and person" are One Mind, therefore no separation or any disharmony exists between them. Only unity, love, peace and harmony exist between them.  

Therefore;  repeat....       It is done, it is done, it is done.


If you're working on yourself state your name as though you're working on a third party.

Wednesday, 4 December 2013

'ONE-MIND' Transformation. Pt 4

But the four basic levels of learning for us all to Spiritually move forward are: 

1: Ignorance; to the truth of Oneness, but the desire to acquire its liberating effects is the beginning of a transition from separation, too connection with our own ultimate BE-ing. How anyone can deny the presence of a perfect Omniscience, Omnipresence, Omnipotence intelligence, greater than their own pea-brained awareness baffles me. Even when I was a child, I revelled in the awesome relevance of a world far beyond anything that I lived in and could ever have conceived possible from a human stand-point. As life has continued to pass by me as a kaleidoscope of complete wonderment, there is not one scrap of doubt left that there has to be an essence of truth that connects all things perceived at the sensory level of existence, beyond where most people’s imagination can stretch. 

This area of imagination is lost to even the most zealot Christian or religious person from ANY cultist ‘spiritual’ gatherings because it paradoxically leaves them completely alone in the spiritual void of ‘nothingness’ where few human DO-ings can ever venture. This lofty realm of complete isolation from personality, stories and pseudo relationship fundamentally based on a constant narcissistic personal view that the little ‘I’ that I am must be appeased. Without knowledge of: “I AM THAT; I AM,” (All that I see, hear, taste, touch and smell; ‘I’ AM,) life continues to be disconnected, surges and withdraws and never appears to remain at all consistent.
Ignorance is NOT a safe place to live, everything and everyone appears to be separate and apart from who WE are. Life happens to us, NOT from us and whatever we do is never permanent as we struggle to maintain homeostasis. At this level of existence we long to come home to a greater truth that most people finally cease resisting near, or on their death-beds and concede; “God help me…. Save me from the pit of hell that I will surely end up in if I don’t accept you as my saviour and divine maker of myself and ALL things.”
Albeit that history shows us that most humans have already lived much of their lives in a hellish environment of confusion, harassment and detachment, separated from the very BE-ing they continually denied. The fundamental denial of a Superconscious realm that lives through us is strongly denied by humans because it would imply that the human DO-ing would not be free to make up their own mind and be free to live according to their own intellectual decision making system. This very desire to be free to have personal choice has paradoxically been denied EVERY human for so many thousands of years that none of us truly knows what personal freedom is any more. In fact, when we express our true freedom of speech, opinion, or lifestyle some other ‘separated’ person/s judges us as radical.

2: Knowledge; Studying to learn how to recognise the difference between Oneness and duality, and how duality separates us from the freedom of our ONE natural, spiritual birthright to explore our own personal expression of abundant creation which is individual ‘IDEA’ at a vibration level ‘in human form,’ only experienced through our five senses. At this stage of unfolding interest in something ‘outside’ of ourselves, we begin to accept that there is a Divinity greater than our own tiny concept of what IS. But this level of awareness keeps the truth of a altruistic presence somewhere far and distanced from us, even in some heaven way out in the Galaxies where no living man, woman or child can ever prove its existence, nor argue its relevance. But at least at this level of awareness we are open to a power greater than ourselves. Most people come to this place either by being brain-washed from cultural dogma, or through some chronic misfortune in their lives they seek solace in the lofty realms of the invisible saviour of all humanity denying their own true identity; that is actually this very Divinity that has always lived through them and can never be found anywhere but everywhere, within, without, in the Galaxies, on earth, the stars, every plant, creature, rock, pebble, grain of sand; in fact everywhere-at-once-living-everything, Omnipresence.

3: Wisdom; is the practise of this acquired knowledge which through continuous experience, brings unfolding quiet peace, harmony, joy, abundance and equality in ALL things. Wealth and Health principles are developing at this vibrant level of LIFE as we practise the awakening from ignorance into the knowledge of ‘ONENESS.’ However, it is the practise of our acquired knowledge that begins to set us free. As we start to live the truth of BE-ing the presence of a living altruistic Divinity that constantly expresses itself through ALL things perceived by the sensory BE-ing, the true essence of who and what we are begins to permeate through us to ALL things around us. Life begins to express itself naturally as we get led to act according to the Divine Will over our lives to serve each other in the most delightful way possible. At this stage of evolution, we begin to realise that what was a often boring drudgery in the past, becomes a pleasurable, vibrant, peaceful experience to live.

4: Understanding; The penny begins to drop at this lofty level of awareness. This final destination of our journey through life to explore all of its possibilities, delivers to us the satisfaction of ‘knowing’ we ARE ‘ONE’ with ALL life. The exhilarating desire to spread the message either in quiet meditation or in the classroom of life defies logic, truth beams out of us as a joyful radiance of light energy, a confidence, enthusiasm, acceptance of all that is LOVE! 
‘WE’- becomes ONE!! The thing we were seeking from other people, places and events or even from the heavens, we now know IS living from us and through US!! 
 Keep tuned into this segment as my own Understanding continues to grow and develop.





Friday, 8 November 2013

Meaning of Relationship.

Science/Spiritual of: Mind, Body, Soul.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_Th8Y6cWgk

We see abundance in the Universe. We cannot count the grains of sand on a single beach. The earth contains untold riches, and the very air is vibrant with power. Why then is man weak, poor and afraid? The science of Mind deals with these questions. The divine plan is one of freedom; bondage is not Infinite-Spirit-ordained. Freedom is the birthright of every living soul. All of us instinctively feel this. The truth points to freedom, under law. Thus the inherent nature of man is forever seeking to express itself in terms of freedom. We do well to listen to this inner voice, for it tells us of a life wonderful in its scope; of a love beyond our fondest dreams; of a freedom which the soul craves.
But the great love of the Universe must be one with the great law of its own being, and we approach love through the law. This then is the teaching: LOVE and LAW. As the love of Infinite Spirit is perfect, so the law of Infinity also is perfect. We MUST understand both.  
Whatever the nature of any principle may be – insofar as it is understood by anyone – it may be understood by all who take the time to investigate. This does not require an unusual degree of intelligence, but rather, a practical application of what we now know in order that we may increase our knowledge. The study of Science and Spirituality is a study of the first cause, and then the ultimate lasting effect, or that invisible essence, that ultimate stuff and intelligence from which everything comes, the power behind creation – the Thing Itself!!

We accept this “THING” and believe in it. What we desire is to know more about it, and how to use it. From proof alone, we know we are dealing with a definite principle. If one (through the Conscious use of his knowledge) can produce a certain result, he must know with what he is dealing. It may seem as though, in dealing with metaphysics, we are dealing with something to abstract. But what is tangible other than results? Principles are forever hidden from our eyes. We accept the deductions of science, insofar as they are proved, and we recognize that they are built upon immutable, but invisible principles. 

Sunday, 3 November 2013

Manage Criticism.


“There is not another who is, or offers, any threat to you. For you are the controller of your own experience. The Art of Allowing, which says, I am that which I am, and I am willing to allow all others to be that which they are, is the Law that will lead you to total freedom—freedom from any experience that you do not want, and freedom from any negative response to any experience that you do not approve of.

When we say it is good to be an Allower, many of you misunderstand what we mean by that, for you think that Allowing means that you will tolerate. You will be that which you are (which by your standards is that which is appropriate), and you will let everyone else be that which they want to be, even if you do not like it. You will feel negative about it; you will feel sorry for them; you may even feel fearful for yourself, but, nevertheless, you will let them be—but in a tolerant fashion.

When you are tolerating, you are not Allowing. They are two different things. One who tolerates is feeling negative emotion. One who is an Allower does not feel negative emotion. And that is a very great difference, for it is the absence of negative emotion that is freedom, you see. You cannot experience freedom when you have negative emotion.

Tolerance may seem to be an advantage for others because you are not hindering them from what they want to do. But tolerance is not an advantage to you, because while you are being tolerant, you are still feeling negative emotion, and therefore, you are still negatively attracting. Once you become an Allower, you will no longer attract into your experience those unwanted things, and you will experience absolute freedom and joy.”


The reason why people would choose things they don’t want is because they are choosing by default. They've learned a vibration, they are unaware of what the vibrational content is until it manifests. It doesn't matter where you are. You have the ability under condition to find a different vibration and reverse whatever the situation is. If you are able to be so selfish that you don’t empathize with a friend in pain, you’re going to connect with Source Energy while you hold this friend who is in pain. Even though your friend is in pain, you’re not going to be focused on that aspect of your friend. So in your connection to Source Energy, as you focus on other aspects of your friend, there is a vibrational stream of energy that actually helps your friend. That is what power of influence is.

- Abraham Hicks (The Law of Attraction)

Sunday, 27 October 2013

Living By Default Or Design.

Are You Living by Default or by Design?
All of us come into this life with a relatively clean slate. From the moment we arrive, however, our brains begin collecting data, until by age 7, we could be anything up to 95% programmed.
This data is recorded, organized and stored by the brain and becomes the foundation upon which we build our lives. What kind of a life we build is a direct reflection of our beliefs.
As children, our belief system is formed and moulded by our experiences long before our reasoning mind developed. This early programming provides our brain with a lens through which it perceives reality. Have you ever wondered how some people make success look easy while others so quickly throw in the towel? It likely has to do with their belief system.

Our beliefs create our framework, and our framework sets up the filters through which we assimilate information and create our lives. This intricate structuring is all found in your Subconscious memory mind. You have a portal through which nearly all information enters your brain called the reticular activating system. Located in your brain stem, the RAS contributes to things like control of sleep, sex, walking, breathing, eating but perhaps most importantly, it controls consciousness. Your RAS filters incoming information and affects what you pay attention to, effectively sorting the important from the unimportant. What you pay attention to, however, is tied to your belief system, the framework of which is in your Subconscious memory mind.
Here's the irony: your reticular activating system works diligently to prevent your Subconscious mind from seeing anything that does not align with your internal beliefs. It becomes circular thinking in effect, as your beliefs determine your reality which reinforce your beliefs. This is great when you have a RAS that sees every circumstance, including setbacks and failures, as a positive through the lens of success. These are the folks who make success look easy. It becomes problematic, however, when there are limiting beliefs as these are the beliefs that create and recreate the very circumstances that we wish would go away!

Most of us were programmed with condition-based, 5 sensory thinking that relies on external stimuli to determine reality. We rely on the physical world as our key informant. This sets up a pattern of thinking that puts our focus on our conditions or circumstances. When we think into the conditions of our lives, we reinforce this pattern and it becomes our default programming. In addition to our five senses, however, we have 5 faculties: imagination, intuition, memory, will and the power of perception. These are our higher capacities that allow us to dream and desire something different for our lives, something better. The challenge is to shift your awareness from your default programming, that focuses on conditions and limiting beliefs, to a design programming that focuses on desired results. 


Because, the truth is, you cannot focus on your goal if you are focused on your conditions! You must learn to manage your mind by exercising your will (Conscious mind) to make yourself think correctly.  Neuroscience has shown that mental training can physically change the brain with evidence that the brain can adapt or expand through repeated activity. There is a profound parallel between mental fitness and physical fitness. Just like physical exercise, engaging in and repeating certain mental activities helps the brain become more efficient. In other words, experiences, repetitive thought processes and training can lead to functional and structural reorganization of your brain. 
Whether you want to gain confidence, achieve the ideal relationship, lose weight, make more money, or improve cognition, our 3D Mindset Transformation technology can help you achieve your goals. Through repetition and feedback, your RAS can be reprogrammed to direct concentration towards the things that will help you achieve your goals, while filtering the things that are holding you back. No more throwing in the towel!           www.lifexcells.com


Friday, 25 October 2013

Mind Training.

Are You Living by Default or by Design?

All of us come into this life with a relatively clean slate. From the moment we arrive, however, our brains begin collecting data, until by age 7, we could be anything up to 75% programmed.

This data is recorded, organized and stored by the brain and becomes the foundation upon which we build our lives. What kind of a life we build is a direct reflection of our beliefs.

As children, our belief system is formed and moulded by our experiences long before our reasoning mind developed. This early programming provides our brain with a lens through which it perceives reality. Have you ever wondered how some people make success look easy while others so quickly throw in the towel? It likely has to do with their belief system.

Our beliefs create our framework, and our framework sets up the filters through which we assimilate information and create our lives. This intricate structuring is all found in your Subconscious memory mind.

You have a portal through which nearly all information enters your brain called the reticular activating system. Located in your brain stem, the RAS contributes to things like control of sleep, sex, walking, breathing, eating but perhaps most importantly, it controls consciousness. Your RAS filters incoming information and affects what you pay attention to, effectively sorting the important from the unimportant. What you pay attention to, however, is tied to your belief system, the framework of which is in your Subconscious memory mind.

Here's the irony: your reticular activating system works diligently to prevent your Subconscious mind from seeing anything that does not align with your internal beliefs. It becomes circular thinking in effect, as your beliefs determine your reality which reinforce your beliefs. This is great when you have a RAS that sees every circumstance, including setbacks and failures, as a positive through the lens of success. These are the folks who make success look easy. It becomes problematic, however, when there are limiting beliefs as these are the beliefs that create and recreate the very circumstances that we wish would go away!

Most of us were programmed with condition-based, 5 sensory thinking that relies on external stimuli to determine reality. We rely on the physical world as our key informant. This sets up a pattern of thinking that puts our focus on our conditions or circumstances. When we think into the conditions of our lives, we reinforce this pattern and it becomes our default programming. In addition to our five senses, however, we have 5 faculties: imagination, intuition, memory, will and the power of perception. These are our higher capacities that allow us to dream and desire something different for our lives, something better. The challenge is to shift your awareness from your default programming, that focuses on conditions and limiting beliefs, to a design programming that focuses on desired results. Because, the truth is, you cannot focus on your goal if you are focused on your conditions! You must learn to manage your mind by exercising your will (Conscious mind) to make yourself think correctly.

A new kind of Mind Training...

Neuroscience has shown that mental training can physically change the brain with evidence that the brain can adapt or expand through repeated activity. There is a profound parallel between mental fitness and physical fitness. Just like physical exercise, engaging in and repeating certain mental activities helps the brain become more efficient. In other words, experiences, repetitive thought processes and training can lead to functional and structural reorganization of your brain. Whether you want to gain confidence, achieve the ideal relationship, lose weight, make more money, or improve cognition, our 3D Mindset Transformation technology can help you achieve your goals. Through repetition and feedback, your RAS can be reprogrammed to direct concentration towards the things that will help you achieve your goals, while filtering the things that are holding you back. No more throwing in the towel!                                    www.lifexcells.com

Tuesday, 15 October 2013

The Power of The Mind.

Perfect Protection Is A Very Simple Dynamic.
www.lifexcells.com 
In the days to come, when men recognize the great truth that Divine Intelligence is the Self-hood of every individual, the evil aimed at us from another will never touch us, but will immediately rebound upon the one who sends it. 

In the degree that we recognize Divine Intelligence as our individual being, we realize that no weapon that is formed against us can prosper because the only "I"....     is God! 
There will be no fear of what man can do to us, since our Self-hood is God and cannot be harmed. 

As soon as the first realization of this truth comes to us, we no longer concern ourselves with what our neighbor does to us. 

Morning, noon, and night we must watch our thoughts, our words and our deeds to make certain that we, ourselves, are not responsible for anything of a negative nature which would have any undesirable future repercussions. 

The Master has instructed us specifically as to the ways in which we can serve our fellow man.            He emphasized the idea of service!! 
His whole mission was the healing of the sick, the raising of the dead, ( to Truth)  and the feeding of the poor. 

The moment that we make ourselves avenues for the outflow of Divine love, from that very moment, we begin really serving each other, expressing love, devotion, and sharing, all in the name of the Infinite Intelligence.
'Practicing The Presence.'                Joel Goldsmith


Thursday, 10 October 2013

The Concept Of... Body.

The Concept (thought) of.....  'Body' 

Do not be too startled when I say to you that there is only one body: There is not a material body AND a spiritual body. There is only one. Here, as in every aspect of life, the principle of oneness applies. 

True, we entertain a MATERIAL CONCEPT of body, and it is that concept of body which gets all twisted up and involves us in all manner of ills, but the body has no power to cause trouble; the body has no power to be good or bad, sick or well: 
IT IS OUR CONCEPT.  (thoughts) which appears as a sick or well body.

When your concept is a material sense of body, you open yourself to all the problems and diseases to which the body may be subject. 
The moment, however, that you drop that concept and realize that there are not two or three or four kinds of bodies, but that there is only one body, and that body is the home of the living Spirit,   Spirit- governed, Spirit- maintained, and subject only to the laws of Spirit you bring this very body under....  "Infinite Intelligence". 

If you believe that your body is material, you are limiting yourself; but if you feel, “Well, as I see it, I certainly have a material SENSE of it,” I can understand that and agree with you because everybody to some degree entertains a material sense of body.

When you can arrive at an understanding that even though you are entertaining a material sense of body.....  you are not a material body, gradually the material sense of body will dissolve in the realization that there is no power in effect, no power in the body, no power in the organs and functions of the body, no power in germs, no power in food. 

“All power is given unto me."  Based on The Infinite Way.     www.lifexcells.com 

Wednesday, 9 October 2013

Masculinization of Male & Female. Pt3


Meeting our ideal partner.

A very interesting chemical cocktail happens when the man meets his woman. The resulting temporary chemical outcome for the first year of the relationship is a more feminine male and a more masculine female. After about a year this chemical imbalance subsides to a level that equals that of a lactating mother; harmoniously blissful. During the third year of their relationship, the brains chemical balance begins to return, this is about the time that couples either separate, fight or flight into a state of denial of the inconsistency's of this other person now entrenched in their life.

Psychiatrist’s mostly accept that people attract their alter- ego in their partners. If this dynamic is known, many couples accept their partners are their teacher of balance. Unfortunately few do learn balance and most marriages either end, or end up in unhappiness, not accepting the gift they have before themselves.

No two people ever met; only their stories meet. And these stories are fundamentally based on our basic chemical structure, educational dogma and ongoing conditioning of the status quo (Latin for: The mess we are in)

We measure each other according to our own version of who we believe the other person to be. If only people would drop their own bias versions of each other, then realize the simple truth that we are all ONE perfect reflection of each other. Everyone we meet…… Is our Teacher!!

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