'ONE-MIND' Transformation. Pt2

'One Mind' Transformation:  (OMT)

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"Physician Heal Thyself"!!!      The 'Illusion' is within yourself! 

A Healing Method Of Self ;  Then watch the illusion in others shift.

By Exposing That Very Thing That I 'SEE' in other People,  Places and Events.  

I then release the flip side of the illusion of appearance that I have been hiding / hoarding within myself. 

 If the illusion is:

Poverty;    release Wealth.

Sickness;  release Health. 

Low self esteem;  release confidence

Bullying;   release divine protection.

Ignorance;  release intelligence.

Female imbalance;  release Male.

Male imbalance;  release Female. etc.

Whatever YOU are experiencing in others....    YOU are the cause!!!! 

ie:  The best thing for a sick child is a Parentectomy.  (The cause)  

Parents simply release the vision of perfect health from within themselves and do everything to support child wellness. 

(This also applies to our own 'ill-health. We take 'The Sick Child' within ourselves into the safe place of the 'Presence;' (present time) to expose the illusion of sickness: 

1: apply Gratitude that we have come this far, 

2:  release the Divine (spiritual) health we have hidden from view.  

3:  It IS Done!!!

A Conscious act of transformation of stuck energy between: Self (&).......  Person, Place or Event.  

Whatever I 'SEE' in another which may be any discord at all, is only stuck energy in myself and I can never be truly free until ALL I experience within myself and other people, places and events is free also. 

The illusion of circumstance is:   The 'Seabirds' which indicate 'The land' (IS Near)

Don't hide that which has come to us as a 'lead' to guide us onto freedom!! 

When we Consciously EXPOSE the circumstance that presents itself to us from ourself, another person, another place, or another event that we 'see' with our sensory perception, the appearance or illusion vaporizes. 

For example:  If  this person, place or event is presenting an illusion of poverty, sickness or fear,  I would release the wealth, health and faith that I am withholding from myself. 

Whatever is showing up on my radar (in another person, place or event) is the very thing that I myself am stuck in.  

Otherwise I would not ever be witnessing it at all in the First Place.

What we are releasing is the flip-side-of-the-coin of what we 'SEE'......

If I am witnessing poverty;    release Wealth.

If I am witnessing sickness;  release Health.

If I witness fear in another;   release Faith. 

Saying the statement: 

"I release  'ALL'  that I Am" to the name of the person, place or event, releases ALL that 'You' have been withholding from this person, place or event.

The person, place or event will come into your mind as a 'lead'  when you make the time each day to be in a 'ONE MIND' (OMT)  receptive state. 

Begin the process by being Grateful to some One, or  Place or Event. 

(Maybe your current circumstances) 

Then as you begin to release ALL that you are; the cause of the disharmony in the other person, place, event will come to you in another 'lead' to act upon. 

The ONLY lack that YOU ever experience is the lack that 'YOU' withhold from person, place or event.

When YOU release what YOU are holding onto, the person, place, event will release what they are holding onto also.       Abundance must prevail!!

Abundance can be either fear or faith.   The Superconscious  Field incubates & magnifies anything given to it by your Subconscious stories or Conscious belief / Vision. 

If the apparent LACK is of: health, wealth, peace, joy, etc, watch ALL the 'lack' vaporize immediately in others circumstances;  then your own;  and Homeostasis fills the void. 

I release ALL that 'I' Am to......  (name of person, place or event that comes into your mind as a lead)  ie:  I release abundance, safety, wealth, health, confidence, self esteem, joy, peace, harmony, dignity, morality, honesty, courtesy,.....

First Step:

'Gratitude' is the KEY that opens the shut door of illusion / appearance!!

Second Step:

Releasing the flip-side of illusion opens the door to Infinite Answer!! 

Third Step: 

Anticipating A Successful Outcome.

Repeat. "It Is Done." Until you 'SEE IT" with your finite sensory perception. 

ie:  "I am so Grateful for this person, place or event."  (Mirroring Myself)

"I Release  (either)  Peace, Joy, Love, Wealth, Health, Faith, Abundance, etc." (to the other; Now)  I stand in Infinite Faith that:  "It IS Done"!!!

If Man / Woman ever wanted to hide the Truth of their own Be-ing.....

They would never hide it in the skies, the oceans, the mountains, outer Space or in other people, as Man / Woman would eventually explore those places and eventually find IT there. 

They would hide it in their own Soul;  that way they would never find it because that is the last place man / woman will ever look, as Soul is the persons own Subconscious memory.  (Pain-Body) 

Within our own Soul is where ALL Truth resides. Release your Truth NOW;  set yourself and others Free!

For example, if a man was angry with other 'Alpha Males' attracting his wife, he would immediately release the 'alpha' male from within himself. He would release the hidden alpha male within his own Soul and connect with and acknowledge the 'alpha' male qualities flowing out from himself.

(And being Grateful for the event reminding him of his own 'hidden' perfect Alpha status within himself) 

For a woman who is not receiving the love she wants from her husband, she would start releasing all the hidden love within her own soul (that she is) from within herself.   She would connect with, and experience that all love is already within her and it is full to overflowing.

(And being Grateful for the event reminding her of her own 'hidden' Love status within herself.) 

This is ALL I have learnt from:

Joel Goldsmith

Wallace Wattles

James Allen

Ernest Holmes

Florence Scovel Shin

 Byron Katie 
Eckhart Tolle.

And put into as simple a process that I can, for the everyday use of every person that cares for themselves and other people, places and events.

We Are ALL The Healer!!  (which IS Within) 

This IS the vital Truth of our BE-ing!! 

Espavo.     Sam.   

Dissolve Criticism.

The Power of a Thank You to Dissolve Criticism


Byron Katie, the originator of The Work process which helps people to find more peace in their lives through a simple questioning method, teaches that Defense is the first act of war. When you have a person firing criticism at you, the moment you start to defend yourself, you have kicked off war between you and them. War requires that there be at least two parties opposing each other.

There is a very simple process which can disarm your critic within minutes! Before you place yourself in a situation like this again however, you may want to read a former blog I wrote -Finding Balance in Your Life. In this blog you'll learn a process of owning and being at peace with any negative trait another person could accuse you of.

With that process done, the next time you find yourself being attacked verbally by someone who is accusing you of all sorts of wrongdoings, simply say "Thank You". When you say the Thank You, contemplate inwardly that we all have, and own every human trait - negative and positive - in varying degrees. From my former blog's recommended exercise, you will realize and have found how you do actually demonstrate somewhere in your life all negative traits you could possibly bring to mind.

Empowered with this inner experience of being okay with negative traits, as your attacker hurls abusive judgments at you, your response becomes a simple "Thank You, Thank You, Thank You." The truth is that nothing can be showing up in your life that doesn't exist in your own thoughts. Quantum physics is proving this.

Physicists tell us that everything we could possibly imagine exists in what some refer to as The Field - the quantum field of all possibilities. They tell us that everything exists as a wave - spread out over space and time - a probability amplitude. This means everything exists merely as a possibility UNTIL we put our attention on The Field. Then the wave becomes a particle (takes on a form). It is the quality of our attention that is bringing a certain probability in the field of all possibilities into material existence.

The implications for us in this knowledge is that whatever is materializing in 'our world' is simply showing us the quality of our own thoughts or inner attention. Somewhere within us, we are holding our attention on that particular state which is manifesting before our eyes. By thanking our aggressor, we are thanking him/her for showing us what thoughts are still active within us. Since we have already made peace with this aspect of ourselves, there is no 'fight' to be had. We can totally agree with the person and thank them for showing us what we still hold within ourselves.

An interesting dynamic happens within the aggressor when you practice saying Thank You to him/her for enlightening you to your inner thoughts. Within minutes, as their onslaught receives none of the expected response from you, they are left with their own anguish, hatred, lack of peace. There is nothing for them to do but BE with themselves. You are not feeding their need to share/spread the burden of their unhappiness with you. They must experience it fully themselves.

I have seen this dynamic work amazingly well time and again with the end result being that the aggressor simply goes quiet as they see for the first time in their life that they are the creators of their own experience. They may resist your behavior for a little while trying desperately to make you feel as unhappy as they are. However, very quickly they will go quiet as they realize there is nowhere to go but within themselves to find resolution with this troublesome state of mind.

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Masculinization of Male & Female. Pt3

Meeting our ideal partner.

A very interesting chemical cocktail happens when the man meets his woman. The resulting temporary chemical outcome for the first year of the relationship is a more feminine male and a more masculine female. After about a year this chemical imbalance subsides to a level that equals that of a lactating mother; harmoniously blissful. During the third year of their relationship, the brains chemical balance begins to return, this is about the time that couples either separate, fight or flight into a state of denial of the inconsistency's of this other person now entrenched in their life.

Psychiatrist’s mostly accept that people attract their alter- ego in their partners. If this dynamic is known, many couples accept their partners are their teacher of balance. Unfortunately few do learn balance and most marriages either end, or end up in unhappiness, not accepting the gift they have before themselves.

No two people ever met; only their stories meet. And these stories are fundamentally based on our basic chemical structure, educational dogma and ongoing conditioning of the status quo (Latin for: The mess we are in)

We measure each other according to our own version of who we believe the other person to be. If only people would drop their own bias versions of each other, then realize the simple truth that we are all ONE perfect reflection of each other. Everyone we meet…… Is our Teacher!!

References:  

http://www.sodahead.com/living/all-babies-in-the-womb-of-course-start-off-as-girls-i-already-knew-this-did-

you/question-2420607/?link=ibaf&q=+boys+and+girls+begin+in+the+womb+as+female

http://babyworld.co.uk/2011/10/how-your-babys-brain-develops/

http://main.zerotothree.org/site/PageServer?pagename=ter_key_brainFAQ

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Progesterone 

Masculinization Of The Female & Male. Pt2

Feminization of a girl baby is determined by estrogen in the womb, not her much lower levels (than a male) of testosterone. She arrives at birth seemingly blissed out from her ‘womb experience’ with the calming, peaceful effects of being bathed in progesterone, and having missed the disturbances of the males testosterone hormonal upheavals.

Interestingly, a mother produces several hundred times more progesterone from the placenta than normally from the ovaries, while pregnant. And she produces more estrogen while pregnant, than she would for the rest of her life. This "happy" hormone progesterone is responsible for the peaceful glow a pregnant female has, her skin, hair and body peaks through gestation, hence the crash after birth to post natal depression by dropping back to prenatal levels produced only by the ovaries. This post natal negative depression syndrome has worsened with our modern estrogen mimicking counterfeit supermarket processed artificial 'food' types and refined carbohydrates.

Ancient healthy tribal woman had no words in their language to describe many of modern women's ailments like post-natal-depression, hot flushes etc. Even menopause was a simple transition into another exciting chapter of their lives without many of western woman’s negative uncomfortable symptoms.  Where has the masculine / feminine energy currently evolved to.....

Masculinization of the Feminine energy is still currently on track to suppress the fairer side of humanity. In recent times of only a few hundred years ago, as feminine began to truly awaken to its loving, peaceful, joyful nature, masculine raised up, armed and dangerous!!! Five million feminine persons burned at the stake, branded as ‘witches’ (because they dared to stand up and challenge male doctrine) masculine was truly threatened within an inch of its 'life.'

Feminization marched on, it's persistent demands to be treated as equal and share its right brain creativity with left brain force remained undiminished. Until finally, a bit over a hundred years ago masculine male allowed the feminine female to vote for masculine to control itself (feminine) legally, and also allowed female into it's education / indoctrination system to be battery fed information for control.

Since that time what has changed? Masculine (and now Feminist) is still very much in control with limited left brain reasoning and not beaten yet, masculine deduced that the only way to beat the uprising feminine was to invite them to join them at the left-brain, half brained orgy of destructive build / bust boom.

Feminine was invited to join the slowly (self) diminishing masculine education system where all females, along with males, would be force feed through a mechanism of battery feed information rote routine, one answer autocratical dogma driven insanity. How far has feminization currently come?         A-hell-of-a-long-way!!

United Masculine is a formidable foe and not to be taken lightly. Seeing that the persistent Feminine movement was never going to back off from claiming their own sovereign right to ultimate freedom, raised the ultimate plan to recreate feminine into masculine. The master plan!!

Masculine tweaked the chemical compounds of our foods to mimic testosterone and progesterone.
The result is fifty years of genetic experimenting with molding feminine into masculine, (and a by-product of masculine into feminine.).  Unfortunately for masculine, the very same chemicals that mimic the female hormone progesterone, also mimics masculine testosterone. Outcome? Yes.... We have effeminate males and masculinised females!!

We humans have evolved to maintain two separate halves of a divided humanity. Not a whole, complete left brain male energy, and right brain female energy synergy WITHIN our own male or female mind.
Females have an easier time with this left / right brain united energy, as the connecting cord between left / right hemispheres of the brain is 23% thicker than a males. Perhaps this is one reason a female can multi task so easily, while a male will specialize at one-thing-at-a-time.

Males have had their masculine testosterone ripped from them by counterfeit chemical food cocktails, and females have forfeited their peaceful, joyful, loving progesterone for a man’s world of commerce and disruption, forgetting the children they bought into the world, leaving them with government trained left brained educators to repeat the very same patterns both modern man and women wonder how they ever got brainwashed into in the first place.

'Feminists' movements have been evolving for hundreds of years that we currently are aware of. Five million documented reports of feminine persons, burned at the stake by the masculine idea to forcefully conquer and control. But feminine kept pushing through to freedom, has the modern day female achieved freedom? How can female be free when they have traded in their uniquely beautiful femininity for their own lesser feministic masculinity? Have they crossed over from femininity to feminist to try to match the pseudo forceful control of masculinity?

Ultimately all of us need to be equally in touch with both aspects of our up-until-now, separated, overall 'oneness' male / female energy in our presently divided human home; that is within our own body, the home that 'WE' live 24/7 within. This is nothing to do with our own physiology, a male body or a female body. It's about overall connection with self.

80% of the average persons energy is burnt up by defending our own ‘stories’ about ourselves, the hidden illusion of who we really are; The Genius within!!

Argue with a fool!

When you argue with a fool.... There are two fools arguing!!

Be The Change!!

"WE MUST BE THE CHANGE THAT WE WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD." Mahatma Gandhi

The Secret of the Law of Attraction. pt2

THE POWER!!! 
'The Power' video is the sequel to 'The Secret' video that came out in 2006. And Rhonda Burns has given the world a wonderful gift by bringing this powerful truth to our attention in such a clear grade five intellectually manageable way. Jesus referred to it as; "Lifting The Veil Off The Truth."

In reality and according to statistics, maybe 3% of us will actually understand what it means to live....
"In Our Power."  The favorite past-time of humanity is to abdicate their own power to live within our ancient curse from the garden of Eden;  "It was not me (that did it) but the woman / man that you sent me.....  The blame game!

Man / woman is not afraid of failure, no, we are used to despair. Humanity is actually terrified of its power to create wonderful things. We are afraid to dream lofty dreams for fear of losing what we create. The tax department, a departing spouse, a shady business partner etc might take it from us. We are so terrified of lose (reverse duality of gain) that we recreate our negative stories on Subconscious looped rote-routine redundant stories of limitation.

The original 'curse' that persists today, the obsolete idea of "The Knowledge Of Good And Bad" is so much of a draining, redundant idea that it has almost bought our society to it's knees.  The overall idea of 'Duality' good/bad, day/night, male/female, god/devil, ying/yang, hot/cold, yes/no etc is merely the illusion of our five senses that have been trained to 'see' the world in 'outside' pictures. The 'world' does not happen outside of ourselves, we connect all the dots of vibrational energy according to our five senses, (taste, touch, smell, sight, sound)  and create the illusion of what we 'think' we see....  within our own minds!

This most certainly isn't the real world that we live in, so consequently we mismanage, by default, our natural ability to live in a Divinely perfect world of our own natural creation.  The entire mechanism to create only the perfect outcomes for ourselves is shrouded behind layers of dysfunctional 'story-time' Subconscious mind patterns that over time, limit us to a life of quiet despair, oscillating between pain and pleasure, like watching a game of Ping Pong, backwards and forwards.

If you are one of the 3% club that will break through your Subconscious programming to watch this video, over and over again if necessary, to receive the 'Magic' of it's hidden wisdom then you will change your life forever.

Never again will you turn back to a limited life of duality. You will be at the level of ONENESS!!

You will find The Genius Within!!    

Secret of the Law of Attraction

"The Secret," to the Law of Attraction......

Ever wondered why some things in life work REALLY well for you, and some other things turn out REALLY awful?  And how do you know whatever you set out to do, will work harmoniously.

Well guess what;  you are The Creator of ALL your outcomes! Either good or bad, and you have the power to change any of your life's outcomes to suit yourself. The Universe literally revolves around you. All that you are is incubated and magnified back to you every moment of each day.

Problem is that we forgot what we were thinking and doing when the seeds of our outcomes were sown. Convenient isn't it, to deny or forget how we are THE CAUSE of all our life outcomes.

'Victims' are  covertly or overtly violent people as they  hide behind their own inability to be able to take responsibility for the way they 'set-up' their opponents to strike back at them. Then they put up the first act of war by reacting to the very circumstances they have secretly created. This is a chronic life that equals a game of Ping Pong as others can sit back and watch victims lives bounce back and forth from lose / win  or  win / lose.

'Creators' on the other hand take full responsibility for all of their life's outcomes, therefor learning as they go to manage an equilibrium of balanced outcomes. The pattern of the creators life is very even. Natural creators understand they are ONE with ALL things and how karma eventually comes around. They maintain homeostasis through Win / Win, whereby they would never start out, without considering the Golden Rule of loving fruitful outcomes for everyone.

In actual fact, every person is creating their own life's outcomes. Some people (victims) deny this fact venomously by putting the blame on someone / something they 'think' is separate from themselves. These people are completely ignorant to the spiritual connection of all people, places and events.

So 'The Secret' is simply about how the Law of Attraction returns whatever we send out to the world.

"To every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction."          Sir Isaac Newton.

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Relationship Myths.

Unifying Left brain (Masculine energy) with Right brain (Feminine energy) brings home our true given nature where all our outer relationships miraculously fall into place. 

Society, education, bureaucracy, commercialism, promotes left brain logic before right brain creativity, which separates us from our natural, imaginative, peaceful state of 'Being' to stay locked on-the-treadmill-of-life.....   In the fast lane of-    'DOing!!' 

"The heart of the wise inclines to the right.   (feminine)  

But the heart of the fool to the left."(Masculine)    Ecclesiastes 10:2

Enlightened Success: 

A wise man once told me that the way to DO   (masculine)   

Is to BE!  (feminine) 

That didn't make sense, as I always believed the way to success was through hard work.  ( left brain) 

And when I work hard, then I can have all I desire.

And when I have all I desire, then I can be happy, fulfilled, content and successful.          

He said;     "You did not come here to create your life by DOing and you will never find true happiness by living that way." 

He said that I must first learn to BE; (Feminine)      

Then DO that which makes my heart sing! 

Only then will I have true happiness, fulfillment and success. 

How much Joy are you experiencing in your life?

What area of your life are you not satisfied with?

Are you ready to make a change? 

Experience the music.....

Experience the message! 

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Validation.

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Well worth a watch!!  This video changed the way my friends and I viewed, experienced, and treated each other....   Enjoy!!!

Birth-Life-Death.

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This video of a three part birth-life-death story of Steve Jobs life was screened to us at a two day Visionary Leadership Conference this week.  The whole story that Steve Jobs told here in the video was after a near death experience, and before he knew that his life was going to be cut short.

His story is such an amazing experience because he decided very young, not to follow anyone but his own intuition. And as he himself said; "It is not possible to connect the dots of our personal journey, accept in hindsight." As he followed his own intuition over the decades, often through great financial hardship and ongoing adversity, his way continued to open up before him as he faced every challenge.

The outcome as we all experience through technology every day is remarkable. Where would we all be if 'Apple' was not given life through one mans commitment to staying off the treadmill of mediocrity and following his own vision to revolutionize how we do business in the 21st century.

Fight Or Flight?

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When faced with a dispute do you fight (attack) or take flight (surrender) ??

We teach you a simple third option which automatically creates: Win / Win outcomes for all. Win / Win outcome simply means, you win and all other parties win. We also re-negotiate the original agreement to a satisfactory outcome on your behalf. When a third party negotiator is bought into an ongoing dispute, both parties can air their grievances in an unbiased environment and quickly get back to a workable answer.

We have the only Dispute Resolution System in the world that actually dissolves the problem, plus teaches you how to avoid making the same mistake again. We go straight to the cause of all problems- not just the end result, that you are faced with now.

Be totally free of disputes now- eliminate the ongoing cause of all problems, that you continue to live with. Get off the merry-go-round by educating yourself about The Law Of Attraction.

We do not incur costly ongoing expenses to you, by going into battle for the problem, we simply eliminate the “cause” of the dispute.

We teach you a simple system of dis-creating disputes and at the same time negotiate the current dispute to a Win / Win outcome for all involved parties.

5 steps to dispute free business / life.

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4: Set time aside to learn and apply our simple "Third Option" dispute dis-creator system to avoid all future problems.

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Delays, doing nothing, or fighting, can be expensive,  - Act now !!

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What Is Love?

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Is it sensuality?  Is it raunchy?  Is it Lustful?  Is it sexuality?

Common love=       Exploitation.

Real Love=               Mutual gratification.

Have-   do-   be=       Ego....         Counterfeit lust!  (decoy)

Be-   do-   have=       Natural...   Real true love. 

“We come to love not by finding a perfect partner, but by learning to see an imperfect partner perfectly.” By seeing who we ourselves truly are, the creator of all of our own world. 

All of our relationships are really imaginary- that is, based on an image formed by thought. If I have an image of you and you have an image of me, then naturally we don’t see each other at all as we actually are. What we see is the images we have formed about each other which prevent us from being in contact and that is why our relationships go wrong.  No two people ever met! 
When we realize this dynamic, we begin to search for this other person’s defects within our own memory and any annoyance will turn to gratitude that their behavior has led you to self discovery.

“I love You.” These words are often said but seldom really meant, as most relationships have a use by date to varying degrees, (50% of marriages fail) even if we stay physically, our energy has moved on.  

Because if you say these words and really mean them.... then they are forever, not just until the person that you are saying them to behaves the way that we feel they should and not change. 

Mostly we stay with others, so long as they agree with..   "Our Story." 

The reality of relationship is that fundamentally we reflect back to others their own behavior, therefore what ever is happening within our relationships, is merely a magnification of our own beliefs.

Knowing this simple truth will liberate each of us to take 100% responsibility for all our life outcomes. We never need to change nor endure others, we merely need to look within ourselves to be free. 
Only then, can we be really grateful for every person, place and event that shows up in our life.

A Stuck Mind.

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A stuck mind is the only problem we face in life!!     It’s like a slow torture.  

The unquestioned mind, believing what it thinks, lives in dead ends- frustrated, hopeless, forever trying to find a way out,  only to experience another dead end. 

And each time the problem is solved, another problem pops up. That's how the unquestioned mind has to live.

It's stuck in the oldest stories, like a Dinosaur chewing on old, stale grass.

When you question beliefs and challenge consequent thoughts, then turn the thoughts around, and allow life to flow like water, you become that water.  

And you watch life lived to the ultimate, always giving you more than you need.    

Who's Minding The Mind?

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In a recent experiment, psychologists at Yale altered people’s judgments of a stranger by handing them a cup of coffee.
The study participants, college students, had no idea that their social instincts were being deliberately manipulated. On the way to the laboratory, they had bumped into a laboratory assistant, who was holding textbooks, a clipboard, papers and a cup of hot or iced coffee — and asked for a hand with the cup.

That was all it took: The students who held a cup of iced coffee rated a hypothetical person they later read about as being much colder, less social and more selfish than did their fellow students, who had momentarily held a cup of hot java.
Findings like this one, as improbable as they seem, have poured forth in psychological research over the last few years. New studies have found that people tidy up more thoroughly when there’s a faint tang of cleaning liquid in the air; they become more competitive if there’s a briefcase in sight, or more cooperative if they glimpse words like “dependable” and “support” — all without being aware of the change, or what prompted it.  Psychologists say that “priming” people in this way is not some form of hypnotism, or even subliminal seduction; rather, it’s a demonstration of how everyday sights, smells and sounds can selectively activate goals or motives that people already have.

More fundamentally, the new studies reveal a subconscious brain that is far more active, purposeful and independent than previously known. Goals, whether to eat, mate or devour an iced latte, are like automatic neural software programs that can only be run one at a time, and the unconscious is perfectly capable of running the program it chooses.

The give and take between these unconscious choices and our rational, conscious aims can help explain some of the more mystifying realities of behavior, like how we can be generous one moment and petty the next, or act rudely at a dinner party when convinced we are emanating charm.

“When it comes to our behavior from moment to moment, the big question is, ‘What to do next?’ ” said John A. Bargh, a professor of psychology at Yale and a co-author, with Lawrence Williams, of the coffee study, which was presented at a recent psychology conference. “Well, we’re finding that we have these unconscious behavioral guidance systems that are continually furnishing suggestions through the day about what to do next, and the brain is considering and often acting on those, all before conscious awareness.”
Dr. Bargh added: “Sometimes those goals are in line with our conscious intentions and purposes, and sometimes they’re not.”

Priming the Unconscious
The idea of subliminal influence has a mixed reputation among scientists because of a history of advertising hype and apparent fraud. In 1957, an ad man named James Vicary claimed to have increased sales of Coca-Cola and popcorn at a movie theater in Fort Lee, N.J., by secretly flashing the words “Eat popcorn” and “Drink Coke” during the film, too quickly to be consciously noticed. But advertisers and regulators doubted his story from the beginning, and in a 1962 interview, Mr. Vicary acknowledged that he had trumped up the findings to gain attention for his business.
Later studies of products promising subliminal improvement, for things like memory and self-esteem, found no effect.

Some scientists also caution against overstating the implications of the latest research on priming unconscious goals. The new research “doesn’t prove that consciousness never does anything,” wrote Roy Baumeister, a professor of psychology at Florida State University, in an e-mail message. “It’s rather like showing you can hot-wire a car to start the ignition without keys. That’s important and potentially useful information, but it doesn’t prove that keys don’t exist or that keys are useless.”
Yet he and most in the field now agree that the evidence for psychological hot-wiring has become overwhelming. In one 2004 experiment, psychologists led by Aaron Kay, then at Stanford University and now at the University of Waterloo, had students take part in a one-on-one investment game with another, unseen player.
Half the students played while sitting at a large table, at the other end of which was a briefcase and a black leather portfolio. These students were far stingier with their money than the others, who played in an identical room, but with a backpack on the table instead.
The mere presence of the briefcase, noticed but not consciously registered, generated business-related associations and expectations, the authors argue, leading the brain to run the most appropriate goal program: compete. The students had no sense of whether they had acted selfishly or generously.

In another experiment, published in 2005, Dutch psychologists had undergraduates sit in a cubicle and fill out a questionnaire. Hidden in the room was a bucket of water with a splash of citrus-scented cleaning fluid, giving off a faint odor. After completing the questionnaire, the young men and women had a snack, a crumbly biscuit provided by laboratory staff members.
The researchers covertly filmed the snack time and found that these students cleared away crumbs three times more often than a comparison group, who had taken the same questionnaire in a room with no cleaning scent. “That is a very big effect, and they really had no idea they were doing it,” said Henk Aarts, a psychologist at Utrecht University and the senior author of the study.

The Same Brain Circuits
The real-world evidence for these unconscious effects is clear to anyone who has ever run out to the car to avoid the rain and ended up driving too fast, or rushed off to pick up dry cleaning and returned with wine and cigarettes — but no pressed slacks.
The brain appears to use the very same neural circuits to execute an unconscious act as it does a conscious one. In a study that appeared in the journal Science in May, a team of English and French neuro scientists performed brain imaging on 18 men and women who were playing a computer game for money. The players held a hand grip and were told that the tighter they squeezed when an image of money flashed on the screen, the more of the loot they could keep.
As expected, the players squeezed harder when the image of a British pound flashed by than when the image of a penny did — regardless of whether they consciously perceived the pictures, many of which flew by subliminally. But the circuits activated in their brains were similar as well: an area called the ventral pallidum was particularly active whenever the participants responded.

“This area is located in what used to be called the reptilian brain, well below the conscious areas of the brain,” said the study’s senior author, Chris Frith, a professor in neuropsychology at University College London who wrote the book “Making Up The Mind: How the Brain Creates our Mental World.”
The results suggest a “bottom-up” decision-making process, in which the ventral pallidum is part of a circuit that first weighs the reward and decides, then interacts with the higher-level, conscious regions later, if at all, Dr. Frith said.

Scientists have spent years trying to pinpoint the exact neural regions that support conscious awareness, so far in vain. But there’s little doubt it involves the prefrontal cortex, the thin outer layer of brain tissue behind the forehead, and experiments like this one show that it can be one of the last neural areas to know when a decision is made.
This bottom-up order makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. The subcortical areas of the brain evolved first and would have had to help individuals fight, flee and scavenge well before conscious, distinctly human layers were added later in evolutionary history. In this sense, Dr. Bargh argues, unconscious goals can be seen as open-ended, adaptive agents acting on behalf of the broad, genetically encoded aims — automatic survival systems.

In several studies, researchers have also shown that, once covertly activated, an unconscious goal persists with the same determination that is evident in our conscious pursuits. Study participants primed to be cooperative are assiduous in their teamwork, for instance, helping others and sharing resources in games that last 20 minutes or longer. Ditto for those set up to be aggressive.
This may help explain how someone can show up at a party in good spirits and then for some unknown reason — the host’s loafers? the family portrait on the wall? some political comment? — turn a little sour, without realizing the change until later, when a friend remarks on it. “I was rude? Really? When?”

Mark Schaller, a psychologist at the University of British Columbia, in Vancouver, has done research showing that when self-protective instincts are primed — simply by turning down the lights in a room, for instance — white people who are normally tolerant become unconsciously more likely to detect hostility in the faces of black men with neutral expressions.
“Sometimes nonconscious effects can be bigger in sheer magnitude than conscious ones,” Dr. Schaller said, “because we can’t moderate stuff we don’t have conscious access to, and the goal stays active.”

Until it is satisfied, that is, when the program is subsequently suppressed, research suggests. In one 2006 study, for instance, researchers had North Western University undergraduates recall an unethical deed from their past, like betraying a friend, or a virtuous one, like returning lost property. Afterward, the students had their choice of a gift, an antiseptic wipe or a pencil; and those who had recalled bad behavior were twice as likely as the others to take the wipe. They had been primed to psychologically “cleanse” their consciences.
Once their hands were wiped, the students became less likely to agree to volunteer their time to help with a graduate school project. Their hands were clean: the unconscious goal had been satisfied and now was being suppressed, the findings suggest.

What You Don’t Know
Using subtle cues for self-improvement is something like trying to tickle yourself, Dr. Bargh said: priming doesn’t work if you’re aware of it. Manipulating others, while possible, is dicey. “We know that as soon as people feel they’re being manipulated, they do the opposite; it backfires,” he said.
And researchers do not yet know how or when, exactly, unconscious drives may suddenly become conscious; or under which circumstances people are able to override hidden urges by force of will. Millions have quit smoking, for instance, and uncounted numbers have resisted darker urges to misbehave that they don’t even fully understand.


Yet the new research on priming makes it clear that we are not alone in our own consciousness. We have company, an invisible partner who has strong reactions about the world that don’t always agree with our own, but whose instincts, these studies clearly show, are at least as likely to be helpful, and attentive to others, as they are to be disruptive.

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/07/31/health/psychology/31subl.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

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1: What is it within me that creates this circumstance that I find myself in?


2: What must I be entertaining in thought to experience this person, place, event?


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How our "Emotions", pain body and hidden forgotten subconscious thoughts direct our life almost on auto pilot. Action creates Reaction or stimulus creates response. Every thought in the human mind sends out an electro-magnetic wave from the base of the heart (heart is a term for,"The open mind.")that has a measurable effect upon the world in which we live.
The heart emits 5,000 times more energy than the brain. And we only make use of one fifth of the brains capacity, therefore we fundamentally are lead by the "heart," (Open mind) which magnifies from our subconscious reality (or belief system) through the neuro pathways to create outcomes of which some are good and some are bad. Logic does not always prevail when "feeling" gets in the way.

 The physical world is made up of two fields of energy; electrical and magnetic= Electromagnetic fields. Our personal world can change dramatically by the emotions (thought and feeling) that we create between our heart and our brain. All matter is simply vibrating sound waves and sound creates form, each thought sends a powerful wave of information which helps shape the world around us.
 Each different thought sends out a different energy. But positive thoughts create positive outcomes and negative thoughts create negative outcomes- which is the law of attraction. As the effect of positive thoughts on water has a dramatically different effect than negative thoughts. Thoughts create electromagnetic fields which go out to change atoms which in turn build the personal world in which we live.

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