What Is Love?

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Is it sensuality?  Is it raunchy?  Is it Lustful?  Is it sexuality?

Common love=       Exploitation.

Real Love=               Mutual gratification.

Have-   do-   be=       Ego....         Counterfeit lust!  (decoy)

Be-   do-   have=       Natural...   Real true love. 

“We come to love not by finding a perfect partner, but by learning to see an imperfect partner perfectly.” By seeing who we ourselves truly are, the creator of all of our own world. 

All of our relationships are really imaginary- that is, based on an image formed by thought. If I have an image of you and you have an image of me, then naturally we don’t see each other at all as we actually are. What we see is the images we have formed about each other which prevent us from being in contact and that is why our relationships go wrong.  No two people ever met! 
When we realize this dynamic, we begin to search for this other person’s defects within our own memory and any annoyance will turn to gratitude that their behavior has led you to self discovery.

“I love You.” These words are often said but seldom really meant, as most relationships have a use by date to varying degrees, (50% of marriages fail) even if we stay physically, our energy has moved on.  

Because if you say these words and really mean them.... then they are forever, not just until the person that you are saying them to behaves the way that we feel they should and not change. 

Mostly we stay with others, so long as they agree with..   "Our Story." 

The reality of relationship is that fundamentally we reflect back to others their own behavior, therefore what ever is happening within our relationships, is merely a magnification of our own beliefs.

Knowing this simple truth will liberate each of us to take 100% responsibility for all our life outcomes. We never need to change nor endure others, we merely need to look within ourselves to be free. 
Only then, can we be really grateful for every person, place and event that shows up in our life.